Jacob's Ladder

by Crown of Glory

“Early the next morning, Jacob took the stone

he had placed under his head and

set it up as a pillar and poured oil on top of it.

He called that place Bethel…”
Genesis 28:18-19

Bible Passage: Genesis 28

Jacob’s name literally means, “heel-grabber.” In our modern-day language, it means, “Cheat, Trickster, Swindler.” Instinct tells us to stay away from people like him.

But God thought differently. Jacob is the third in line where God’s covenant relationship is concerned, and it is after him that God chooses to name the nation of Israel.

I have many favorites in the Bible. Abraham is one, Isaac is another. But Jacob is my “most favorite” of them all. I never get tired of reading the story of his life.

One evening many years ago, Ernie came into our living room and found me in tears. “What’s wrong,” he asked me. “Jacob died,” I told him. “Jacob who?” he asked. “Is it anyone I know?” “Yes, it’s Jacob the patriarch, he died…” At that, my husband just quietly left me. He understood that I was again being moved by the dealings of God in this man’s life.

Even now as I write these lines, I am misty-eyed. How difficult Jacob’s life journey had been. And what he went through to be transformed into the noble patriarch that he was at the end of his life!

It’s a long story. And while many may have an idea about the story of his life, I have gone through the chapters of Jacob’s life over and over again, that I feel like I know him as a close friend. This is the reason that I sometimes find myself crying when I reach the part in Genesis 49 where Jacob, after blessing his sons and giving them specific instructions about his burial, draws up his feet up into the bed, breaths his last, and is gathered to his people. Even the way his death is described is so beautiful. What a meaningful way to die!

But let me not be carried away and get ahead of myself in what I really want to say.

The story of Jacob actually begins long before he is born. God reveals to Rebekah at the time of her pregnancy that two nations were in her womb, but that one people will be stronger than the other, and that the older will serve the younger (Genesis 25:23).

Jacob is the younger one. And for sure his mother must have told him all about these things. He was impulsive, and impatient. He didn’t know how to wait for God’s appointed time. He literally lives up to his name. Surely he would have received the said blessings at the right time. But he manipulates his brother Esau into selling him the first-born birthright for a measly bowl of soup. And several years later, he tricks his father Isaac into giving him the blessing reserved for the first born son.

Esau, realizing that he has been cheated twice, vows to kill him. It is in this context that we read Genesis 28. Under the pretext of finding a wife for himself, Jacob leaves Beersheba and embarks on a journey to his uncle Laban’s house. He is actually fleeing from the wrath of his elder twin brother.

Before Jacob leaves home, however, in addition to the blessing that he had already received through trickery, he is given a going-away blessing by his father. Isaac probably realizes that this son of his will need all the blessing he can have. In Genesis 28:3-4, we read:

“May God almighty bless you and make you fruitful and increase your numbers until you become a community of peoples. May he give you and your descendants the blessing of Abraham, so that you may take possession of the land where you now live as an alien, the land God gave to Abraham.”

The “blessing of Abraham” is the aspect of the birthright that Esau gave up, but in his place, Jacob will benefit. We all think that Jacob is just as unworthy to receive this generational blessing, but well, we are not in the place of God. In God’s sovereign plan, Jacob is somehow the one chosen to carry on His promise to Abraham.

On the way to Paddan Aram, Jacob decides to spend the night in a place called Luz. He lies down to sleep, using one of the stones there as a pillow for his head. Jacob, weary, confused, and running for his life, dreams.

He sees a ladder on earth, “with its top reaching to heaven, and the angels of God…ascending and descending on it.” Above the ladder stood the Lord. In this dream, Jacob is given the terms of the covenant that God had previously given to Abraham and Isaac. Now it was his turn to personally receive the promises of God.

God introduces himself by his covenant name, the God of Abraham and the God of Isaac. And God reiterates the terms of His covenant with Abraham. Jacob, in essence, is promised a land, a nation, and a blessing. But there is more. God speaks to Jacob what he needs to hear at that very moment. “I am with you and will watch over you wherever you go, and I will bring you back to this land. I will not leave you until I have done what I promised you.”

And this is what amazes me about God. Is Jacob worthy of these covenant promises? At this point in time, definitely not. But a covenant is a covenant, and God is no covenant breaker. He is the ultimate Promise Keeper. God enters into a covenant with a Trickster and a Cheapskate to honor His covenant with Abraham.

Jacob’s audacity is appalling. Instead of humbly receiving the covenant terms, he bargains with God, adopting a wait and see attitude. In effect he tells God, “Be with me, protect me, provide for my needs, and bring me back safely to my father’s house. Then, and only then, will I honor you as my covenant God.”

Notice that God doesn’t even lay down any conditions. His “terms” were not actually terms in the real sense of the word, they were one-sided unconditional promises. “I will do this for you.” Period.

With such a response from Jacob, you’d think that God would change his mind and call the whole deal off. Yet, God is not ashamed to call himself the God of Abraham, the God of Isaac, and the God of Jacob (Exodus 3:6).

Jacob nevertheless realizes that he was standing on holy ground. He gets the stone that he used for a pillow, pours oil on it, sets it up as a pillar, and renames the place “Bethel,” meaning “house of God.” Even in his worldly condition he had sense enough to recognize that there was indeed a ladder, a heavenly connection in that place where God had somehow reached him, and revealed Himself to him.

Jacob’s story is actually a story about the making of a man after whom the promised land will eventually be named. Therefore, it was necessary for Jacob to go through the crucible, and traverse the painful road from being Heel-grabber to becoming Israel, Prince With God.

REAL LIFE:

In my college years, a close friend once told me: “Lidj, how I envy you. You have such a “well-oiled existence.” She had a drunkard for a father, and her mother was a schoolteacher who had to take in washing on weekends to make ends meet and earn enough to put her and her siblings through school. There were times when she would come to school with puffy eyes, for her father had again beaten her mother up the night before. I would cry with her, but I never could relate. I came from a good home, had loving responsible parents, and was well-provided for. Secretly, I considered her remark a compliment.

But a few years after I got married, I realized that there is really no such thing as a well oiled existence, unless one is willing to go through the process. I have awakened nights asking God if He is for real, asking Him to show me a connection to heaven from where I was.

I can’t say that I’m a literal Jacob… but we all are like him in many ways. My story is also the story of a woman in the making, going through the crucible of joy and sorrow. But I have no regrets. God has graciously shown me heaven-to-earth connections in the Bethels of my life.

When I reach heaven’s shores, I will kneel at the feet of my God, my King… and then I will put my arms around Jacob and thank him for having been such an instrument for the shaping of my character.

ACTION STEP:

Are you confused, tired, and wondering where your life is leading? Ask God: Where is the vital connection between where you are and where He is? Have you somehow missed on this and just went on your journey, and therefore missed hearing Him speak to you the unconditional promises that He has been longing to reveal to you? Have you been like Jacob, bargaining with the Father, insisting on your own terms, striving to run your life your way, instead of just humbly allowing him to work in your life? Go back now to your Bethel, pour oil on that rock and set it up as an altar of promise. And there, hear what God wants to say to you.

PRAYER:

"Dear Father, I humbly kneel now at the foot of that heavenly ladder, and know that You are there, reaching out to me, and saying to me, “I am with you, my child. I will watch over you, I will not leave you until I have done what I have promised you.” I acknowledge you as my covenant God. I put my trust in You.”

The Woman in Proverbs 31.... Is she for real?

$aMsUng

“A good wife is hard to find, she is worth more than rubies. Her husband trusts her completely. She likes to work with her hands, looks for wool and flax and brings food from far away. While still dark she prepares food for her family and servant girls. She inspects and buys a field and plants a vineyard. She works with energy, her arms are strong. Her lamps burns late into the night. She makes thread with her hands and weaves her own cloth, keeping her family warm in winter nights. She helps the poor and the needy. She is respected by the people. She looks forward to the future with joy. Her children speak well of her and her husband praises her.”

"We’re all living in the shadow of that infamous icon, The Proverbs 31 Woman, whose life is so busy I wonder, does she have time for friendships, for taking walks, reading good books? Her light never goes out at night? When does she have sex? Somehow she has sanctified the shame most women live under, biblical proof that yet again we don’t measure up. Is that supposed to be godly – that sense that you are a failure as a woman." An excerpt taken from the book, Captivating by John and Stasi Eldredge

I may not be the epitome of a Proverbs 31 Woman pictured in the Bible, but I believe I am worth more than rubies too! My husband trusts me…completely! I don’t do hard labor with my hands, don’t even like to garden, but hey! Buying wool from Australia and flax from Egypt or Turkey would cost him an arm and a leg. So I just buy clothing from the rack. It’s cheaper, practical and saves him tons of money indeed!

Our servant girls (doesn’t that just sound a lot better than merely saying cook?) prepare our meals but I make sure they also eat well. I help the poor and the needy, as much as my budget would allow. My light definitely burns late into the night. It’s 2 am and I cannot just go to bed without defending my admirable and not so admirable traits. But who says it has to be dark? Tsk, tsk, John and Stasi, you have much to learn.

I look forward to my silver belle years with joy now, yet still in the process of learning how to age gracefully. I have time for my friends, time to read a good book and watch a movie every now and then. My daughter describes me as “barbaric” (actually, she means cruel). But she's young... and what does she know??? (justifying..... :)

Hmmm…my husband? As long as I exercise regularly, take my vitamins, eat my veggies, stay away from Babes…I’m good! That’s as much compliment I’d get from him nowadays. I don’t consider myself a failure. Just being there for my dear family and having found my niche in my beloved Children’s Ministry, I must say, I live a fulfilling life, serving the Lord in the best capacity I can.

Har-har! I’m taking this too literally. I may not be the archetype of a good steward, but I simply refuse to feel guilty...

So to all women out there, whatever you’re going through… be it for bitter or worst, in joy or in sorrow, or simply stressed out from holding up as models of femininity in our community, just remember, God created us differently. Our essence and purpose in life are distinct from each other. We can’t all be the Bible's Proverbs 31 Woman… so let’s just do the best we can, enjoy the role God has given us and be wonderfully blessed!!!

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Revelations VIII

by P31

The Power of Blessing in our Tongues

"But those who rebuke the wicked will have delight,
and a good blessing will come upon them.
He who gives a right answer kisses the lips."

(Proverbs 24:25)

Bible Passage: Genesis 24

Real Life:

I was so angry and frustrated about how the exams were put together by the examiners. Right after I took the June 2007 tests, I heard myself shout a loud cry, ‘ I hate BON! I hate BON! [BON- Board of Nursing]. I screamed in my room’s bathroom to my heart’s delight since nobody could hear me anyway. It was a complicated exam! And much to my dismay, I swore to myself that BON will never succeed in their efforts in uplifting the integrity of professionalizing nurses in the country.

You have journeyed with me as I recount my REVELATIONS experiences. I recalled very vividly God’s leading for me to consecrate myself [v.10,14] before I met up with HIM in my spiritual holy mountain. [At the time of Moses, Mt. Sinai was a place irreverent to touch. The mountain was to be constituted “holy” due to the fact that God would manifest Himself to Moses and to the Israelites there. Thus, just as the ground around the burning bush was holy (Exod. 3:5), so the mountain was holy as well. This is the reason why the mountain was to be “consecrated” by placing boundaries around it (v. 23).] But then again, this is another story to tell that I will share with you in my next Revelations series].

There in the holy mountain [Mt. Sinai experience], was the word BLESSING.

We often miss the supernatural significance of this word, blessing. Sometimes we become so familiar with the concept that we lose its concrete meaning. Think about it. We often use the word "bless" in familiar speech. I hear many people say, "God Bless you!" The other day I sneezed and my 5-year-old daughter said, " Bless you!" What do we know about what it really means?

In my many years of working with Family Foundations, International, I have learned that Blessing in Greek means, “well spoken of, praised, to speak well of, to call down God’s gracious power, empower to prosper”. On the one hand, we learn the true meaning of the blessing from Jacob. Blessing in Hebrew is the word barak, "to kneel." And the word picture here describes a man who had his camel bend down on its knees so he could get on it (Genesis 24:11). In the Scriptures, when barak, "to bless," is used in association with God, it means, "to bow with bended knee to express awe and value." We're familiar with the concept of blessing when we encounter royalty. In history, and even today in countries with a royal family such as England, a person bows or curtsies to express to royalty their inherent honor and value. So when God blesses us, as He so often does, He says to you and to me, "I value you and I add value to your life."

As I took this concept from the heavenly realm, "to bless" simply means to recognize value in a person and to add value through a spoken word or a specific deed. So why did God point out to me the word, Blessing? Because it is important for me to understand that in my tongue, I have the power to speak a “blessing” or a “curse”.

In my case, I sinned for cursing BON and maligning their name, through my spoken words from my angry heart and frustration. I fully realize that I have to have a certain amount of thought life cleaned up to some degree in the Lord with the sanctifying help of the Holy Spirit, but if I can't make the next step and transmit the right words to others in my own personal dealings, then all of the sanctification that I went through to get my life cleaned up will have all been for naught.

I can either choose to learn how to speak and release positive words of blessing of love, blessing of encouragement and blessing of edification to other people, or I can choose to release negative words of condemnation, criticism, coldness and harshness.

I choose the former.

This is a very serious warning being given to us by our Lord - and how we talk and express ourselves to our children, our husband, our family and to other people in this life should never, ever be taken for granted. God has given each and everyone of us a certain amount of power with the words that we can speak out to other people - and those words can either bring life [blessing] or death to the person we are speaking to.

Here is this most solemn verse:

"But I say to you that for every idle word men may speak, they will give account of it in the day of judgment. For by your words you will be justified, and by your words you will be condemned." (Matthew 12:36)

This is a grievous matter.

Not only will the kind of words we speak out to others in this life determine how many good friends we may end up making or how good those personal friendships will end up being, but our words are also going to be appropriately judged by the Lord Himself on our day of judgment with Him.

As for me, I may have been judged already, but God is always gracious! I know in my heart that I have been forgiven.

Prayer:
“My precious God, It’s easy for me to forget about how my tongue should operate. Thank you for teaching me to use it wisely. For whatever words come out, may it be to bless my spouse, my children, my family, and my friends. Help me to model a life that’s reflective of your Son, Jesus Christ and I pray, Lord, that I may be a blessing to those around me through the power of blessing with my tongue. In Your Name, Jesus, AMEN."

YES, WHY WORRY?

by $aMsUnG

One more week to go and it will be summer vacation. Sob… sob. Much as I love my daughter, I don’t relish being with her almost 24/7. She’s good for about one to two hours a day, we talk about school, how well she did or how badly she fared for the day, her friends, boys, school projects, her daily gripes about her teachers and the school system, boys (have I mentioned that yet?), what they cooked in homeroom…the new dance steps she learned… anything that crosses her mind!!! Recently she has added a new word to her vocabulary and very often injects it into our conversations. SHOPPING. She seems to be in the buying spree mode, so sorry my dear, but Mama is in the belt-tightening mode. Frequently asked questions now are “Are we going to the mall?” (always directed to me) and “Are we eating out tonight?” (ask Dad). That’s usually reserved for weekends only, but can you imagine hearing that almost everyday for the whole summer? Her reasons for those questions? I’m a teen-ager now, I need more clothes… I’m a growing girl, I need to eat. Yeah, like you need to have your zero cavity wisdom tooth extracted without anesthesia too. Now you know the kind of stress I’ll be facing come this summer? Not that I don’t enjoy shopping with her. It’s actually gratifying to find out your daughter has developed a good fashion sense rather than none at all, but that kind of sense is somewhat draining to the wallet, especially when done on a daily basis.

She is too old to be tagging along with me all the time and too young to be out with friends everyday. Besides, you never really know what they’re up to. Friendster and texting aren’t exactly the solutions I’m looking for. I like activities that involve leaving the house (otherwise she’d be glued to the computer all day long), learning something new, something that would enhance the personality as well. It was easy when she was younger, there were swimming lessons to be had, arts and crafts summer classes… that one worked for many dog days. I have to be innovative. Look for activities that would spark her interest, lay down all the choices and try to summon some enthusiasm out from her. Last year it was gymnastics and jazz. We could probably do it again this year, though I seriously doubt her gymnastics teacher could do the cartwheel with a huge abdominal bulge. Belly dancing??? Coupled with jazz lessons, that might just solve my problem, even if only for a couple of hours three afternoons a week. Throw in some cooking or baking lessons, voice, guitar and drum lessons and I’ll be de-stressed. Mornings are for sleeping in, late nights for watching television or dvds, reading together, fighting as to who gets to use the computer and midnight snacking - so that’s no problemo.

If February is the time I start worrying about unproductive summers it is also the time I start planning our vacation. I usually like to go end of May, just before school opens. I know it’s a long way off yet, but that way I can make as many plans as I want, and if one doesn’t push through, then I have my fallbacks. Even if nothing materializes, working out the details won’t cost us any. For now, my vacation plans and our financial resources are not in sync. So I’m looking for the lowest possible rate, with a reasonably good hotel to Vietnam or Malaysia . If you know of any good deals, please drop me a comment, I’d really appreciate it. I also hear that from Iraq you can fly to almost anywhere for as low as $20, via Scud missile. Breakfast, lodging and return ticket not included. If you’ve taken a crack at this and was able to come back, please confirm.

Another option would be to visit Cagayan de Oro, the Camiguin Island and Davao City . Plus a side trip to Bukidnon. I believe the catchy phrase for it is WOW Philippines ! Cagayan de Oro is known as the “Whitewater Rafting Capital of the Philippines ”. Right! Like we’d really go rafting, we’ll probably end up in the mall again!!! Camiguin’s unique attractions are the sunken cemetary, old church ruins, hot springs, cold springs, you name it, the island has it. Davao is endowed with a variety of picturesque landscapes, fruit plantations and orchid farms, virgin forests that nurture rare wildlife, the very famous pearl farm, among others. The main thing that would draw us to Bukidnon aside from the beautiful scenic view is to visit some old family friends who have drifted off to that part of the country. From Metro Manila to Bukidnon, we now call them the hillbillies.

But at the end of the day, unless the Lord blesses our plans and grants the desires of our hearts, we plan in vain. So why worry? God gives us everything we need, if He feels we need a vacation, then we’ll get one. If not, nobody has ever kicked the bucket from staying home for the whole summer break yet. We put all these possibilities and probabilities in His hands to do as He wants, for He knows what’s best for us. And maybe… we might just end up going to Zimbabwe . Dream on, $aM. It’s three in the morning, perfect time for dreaming… I’m off to bed. ZZzzz…

Thank you, Grace R!

by Proverbs 31 Woman

I got the surprise of my life just before we left home from office. FED-EX arrived late afternoon with a package for me just as I was about to step out of the Ikthus gate. I received a gift from someone I do not know [or I may have known her but just couldn't remember], thanking me for this blog and how it has inpired her. She sent for a CD of Josh Groban. I, and the rest of the devotional team, are blessed to be a blessing to our readers and that's our goal why this blog was created; to touch lives and to bring people to a spiritual solace and peace only Jesus can give.

The CD is simply entitled, 'Josh Groban'. It's an album of classics in Italian. His mesmeric voice brings you to another place..... like in a dream.... full of life and passion.... mysteriously beautiful!

The video below is a duet of Celine Dion and Josh, 'The Prayer'. The first time I heard of this song was in a friend's wedding some 5 years ago and since then, it has become one of my favorites. Enjoy and be truly blessed!

And to Grace R., thank you. Your encouragement warms my heart. I am praying for you and I bless you and your family with much peace, love and joy. May the work of your hands prosper and may you be used mightily by Him, for His glory alone.

With much love,

P31 [JSL]

REVELATIONS VII

by Proverbs 31 Woman

KNOWING GOD’S WILL BY GODLY COUNSEL

“If any of you lacks wisdom, he should ask God, who gives generously

to all without finding fault, and it will be given to him.

But when he asks, he must believe and not doubt,

because he who doubts is like a wave of the sea,

blown and tossed by the wind.

That man should not think he will receive anything from the Lord;

he is a double-minded man, unstable in all he does.”

James 1:5-8 (NIV)

Bible Passage: Exodus 18

Real Life:
The day when I sought God’s face at my own Mt. Sinai experience, one among many vital instructions was to seek for godly counsel.

The book of Exodus, in chapter 18 reiterates Moses’ experiences with his father-in-law, who gave him wisdom with his affairs for he was submerged beneath the numerous needs of the Israelites that his burden grew to such proportions “laboring himself from morning until the evening”, everyday (Ex. 18:13).

I have to admit, I was enslaving myself to work hard so I could fulfill my goals and dreams! With good intentions, I was doing it well. Aside from being a full time mother and wife, I was likewise a full time nursing student and a volunteer church worker, juggling myself in between. There was very little room to seek God for directions. By the time the alarm strikes in the morning, I was on my feet ready to face the day’s battle. And by the time I was to lay my head down to sleep, I was just too tired to even think of praying.

After reading the chapter, I was just prompted to see my father-in-law. I really don’t have that kind of a relationship with him but that day was marked by God for our meeting. When I arrived at his home, he looked at me, didn’t say much yet he knew why I was there. All I did was cry. He stood there, didn’t know what to do for he is not much of an affectionate person but his encouragment was more than words can say. I remember him saying, “Move on. If you have to take the exams all over again, or even a hundred times, just go and do it.” He wrapped his arm around my shoulder and felt his blessing. That was all I wanted to hear… his blessing of encouragement.

Why did God instruct me to seek advise from others? The Holy Spirit uses godly counsel from godly people to help us discern God’s will. Godly counsel means, godly counsel, not good opinions from nice people! Godly counsel comes from God which means that a godly counselor is one who knows the Word of God, is spending quality time with God in prayer, and is living a godly life. I have learned three things from this lesson:

1. Godly counsel helps us learn from the mistakes of others.

I am so blessed to be surrounded by godly people in my church. During my lowest point, they were there when I exhausted my heart with my story. My pastor never failed to give me bits and pieces of encouragement and wisdom at the time I needed the most. My mentors, Mizpah and Crown of Glory. Their lives are living examples of God’s faithfulness and my small group of moms and wives, they listened…. and they imparted godly counsel.

“If you find that you need specific counsel, seek out a godly person who is an expert in that area or who has experience in the very circumstances in which you find yourself. Follow the suggestions that are based upon God’s Word. None of us do well in walking through life alone. We need to be in close communication and association with other people who believe in Christ Jesus, are studying God’s Word, and are seeking to follow Christ daily. We need to spend some time with people who have been through experiences that we are facing. We also need to spend time with people who have succeeded in an area of life in which we would also like to succeed. We need to talk things over with them, learn from them, and receive their wise counsel.” -Walking Wisely: Charles Stanley, 103.

2. Godly counsel gives us a godly perspective.

“Nearly every king mentioned in Scripture relied on advisers to share their wisdom in difficult situations. Moses spoke with his father-in-law. David and Solomon turned to their trusted counselors when in need. In the early church the believers looked to the disciples for counsel. Even Paul had those he could turn to for wisdom. First it was Barnabas, and Paul was also willing to listen to the leadership of the church in Acts 21:20-25.” -Dr. Bruce Waltke: Finding The Will Of God, 112.

3. Godly counsel helps reveal our hidden motives.

“Plans go wrong with too few counselors; many counselors bring success.” Proverbs 15:22

We often cannot see God when we are just too busy doing our own agenda. Godly counsel points out our hidden motives by exposing it gently for correction to take place leading us to the right path. They can see things we cannot see and discern God’s guidance we often cannot fathom.

The book of Proverbs has a rich collection of verses regarding seeking godly counsel:

“Let the wise listen and add to their learning, and let the discerning get guidance.”

Proverbs 1:5

“For lack of guidance a nation falls, but many advisers make victory sure.”
Proverbs 11:14

“Get all the advice you can and be wise the rest of your life.”
Proverbs 19:20 (LB)

“The way of a fool seems right to him, but a wise man listens to advice.”
Proverbs 12:15

“Wisdom is found in those who take advice.”
Proverbs 13:10

“Plans fail for lack of counsel, but with many advisers they succeed.”
Proverbs 15:22

“Listen to advice and accept instruction, and in the end you will be wise.”
Proverbs 19:20

“Make plans by seeking advice…”

Proverbs 20:18

“The pleasantness of one’s friend springs from his earnest counsel.”

Proverbs 27:9

Prayer:
“Lord, I thank you for Your advise through these godly people in my life! Their words bring encouragment and life. I know in my heart that they are not there by mistake. Bless these people Lord. I pray that You will increase their ministry so they can bless others more, just as I was ministered by You through them. In Your name Jesus, Amen.”

CAN A MOTHER’S HEART REALLY LET GO?

by Mizpah

(lyrics of the song here)

“Then her heart becomes an altar, which holds each burden & care;
AND, nothing moves the heart of God, more than a mother's prayer.”
Mary Carter Mizrany

I became a mother at 19 years old. Young as I was, I had nothing on my sleeves about motherhood except that I was one. Despite my lack of knowledge, by God’s grace, I can say, I have been a good mother albeit I was working ever since I did my best to keep up with my mothering responsibilities.

Allow me to quote a line from a song I so love, “For all that I’ve done wrong, I must have done something right, to deserve…” Yes, to deserve our children. I am a mother of two. God willing, my son, John is turning twenty eight this April and my daughter, Sandi will be twenty this coming November.

Loving them is my life. Taking care of them and their needs are my priority. Literally, I live and breathe for my children. I will sacrifice anything where they are concerned. Since they were born until today, what comes their way, big or small, tears or laughter, failures or victories, significant or insignificant, I am there.

Who can tell me when should mothering stop? Who can tell me it’s easy to let go?

I can just look back at time how worried I was when they got their first vaccination and ran a slight fever; how my heart thumped as I extended my arms waiting for them as they took their first two steps; how excited I was when they attended their first day in school and the pride I donned was when they handed in their first test paper marked with “VG” (Very Good) or 100%; how I grinned from ear to ear as I watched their first calisthenics program in school and how I wanted to smack the face of that little guy who teased him!

Panting for breath, I would run to Lopue’s Department Store after office to get them their lead and mechanical pencils, art papers and glue so they will be marked “complete” for their project requirement; I recall the day I walked liked Mrs. Hillary Clinton when the names of my children were called to receive awards in school; my ears grew like Dumbo the Elephant when I overheard they’ve got a “crush”; I got so excited preparing for their outfits for their prom night and made sure they smelled “good”; Giving them their own cell phones was a sight to behold! I remember those nights I waited until dawn to make sure they got home safe and that was not funny!; attending their graduation was like being in the “Red Carpet”; and finding out that they were in a relationship was a thrill!

Soon after, it was preparing résumés for the first work application. The first time my son was called for a job interview, I was at home imagining what questions will be asked. “Will he make it?” inquired my anxious heart. Not before long, my son got his first job! A most memorable time for me was bringing him to Robinsons to get his complete set of wardrobe. “Hey world, my son is a professional!” That was more than five years ago.

These beautiful memoirs are too many to recount yet when I do, they never fail to lift my heart. The Lord has been good! Next month, John is moving to his own home. His future plans…his wedding? Oh, haven’t reached there yet. And my daughter? Well, it’s a joy to dream of our shopping spree when she gets to receive her first pay. However, she just made clear to her Pap and me that she will be claiming her full independence the day right after her college graduation next year.

They may be both adult persons in their own right, both assertive and secure to take their place in this tough world yet, they would still answer to our call of “My baby!” If they’re free, weekends would mean the four of us feasting over our special Sunday lunch after church and watching DVD movies for our night together, munching on our favorite midnight snack. A real treat for us is still being able to stay in bed, snuggle close and tickle each other ‘til we scream with glee to our hearts delight.

Now, who can tell me what “letting go” means? Can a mother really “let go” of her children? When can she start letting them go?

I know, I must. I know I should.

On my own, I can’t.

With Jesus, I can. With Jesus, I am.

“A MOTHER HOLDS HER CHILDREN’S HANDS FOR AWHILE – THEIR HEARTS FOREVER.”